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What Every Man Should Do...
Rumour has it that most women are not happy with their figure, in particularly their breasts. I will leave that up to speculation and assume for the moment that there are plenty of women that are unhappy with their breasts. Many of those women will have a partner of the opposite gender. If a man notices that his partner is unhappy with her breasts, the question arises: Can he do something to make his partner feel better about it? The answer is simply: yes.
I must add immediately that it is not always obvious for her partner to notice that a woman is unhappy about her breasts. Some women will complain openly about it, in which case it is obvious, some others will keep it to themselves while others still will seek constant approval of their partners about her breasts, be that in the form of compliments, dressing sexily or seducing her partner to provoke a reaction. All these are signs that there is something wrong and this is the time for her partner to take action.
Whether your partner is the silent- or open type, talking to her about her problem is the best place to start, but only if you really love your partner's breasts. If you, her parner, do not like her breasts either, then that is your problem and you should search your own feelings to find out why you do not like her breasts and what you can do about it. Leaving your partner just because she does not have the breasts you dream of is not entirely fair, is it? Assuming that you love your partner's breasts as much as you love her, start talking to her about her problem. Take your time and ask her what is wrong. Do not be surprised if you find that she pours a whole load of stuff into your lap at once. Listen intently, let her finish and then start asking her questions. Why does she not like her breasts? Are they too big or too small? If so, too big- or too small for what? Are her friends' breasts all bigger or smaller than hers? Fine, but she is she and her friends are someone else. Do not forget to compliment her from time to time on her breasts and tell her you love her for what she is. After all, if that was not the case, you would not be sitting there with her.
Try to have these conversations with her on a regular basis until the problem is solved, be it in the morning, afternoon or evening, during a meal, before or after sex, in the bathroom; it does not matter when and where but only do it when the two of you are both up to talking about it. The goal is to get to the bottom of the problem, the very first time she felt bad about her breasts, because once people know the bottom line, they also know what to change about themselves and feel happy and confident once again. Maybe something happened in her childhood that affected her, she might have had a friend that teased her, someone of whom she was jealous to name but a few common problems; the possibilities are endless. Be her psychiatrist if you must. It is the happiness of your partner and hence of you that is at stake here. If your partner is stubborn, you find that your compliments and talks seem to be having no effect and you feel like exploding, by all means explode. Often that will have such a shocking effect on people that they will realize many things in a split second.
If you two can solve this problem together, your partner will feel immensely relieved and happy and you will feel good about helping her. Is that not worth the investment?
by Ramón